New Beginnings: Trusting Your Second-Time-Around ADHD Relationship with Melissa Orlov — 2025

Statistics show that ADHD couples are more likely to seek divorce or separation than their non-ADHD counterparts. But love is enduring, and many ADHD partners eventually find new relationships—determined not to repeat mistakes from the past. These challenges are explored in this lively and deeply personal session with ADHD relationship expert Melissa Orlov. She discusses the pain that follows separation and the crucial transition period for healing before committing to another person. Understanding old, unworkable patterns from previous ADHD relationships is essential for building a stronger foundation the next time around. By rebuilding trust, embracing personal growth, and learning practical strategies, new ADHD partners can create richly rewarding relationships that truly mark a new beginning.

ABOUT MELISSA ORLOV

Melissa Orlov is the founder of ADHDmarriage.com, and author of two award-winning books on the impact of ADHD in relationships – The ADHD Effect on Marriage (2010) and The Couple’s Guide to Thriving with ADHD (2014). She is considered one of the foremost authorities on the topic of how ADHD impacts adult relationships.

A marriage consultant, Melissa helps ADHD-affected couples from around the world re-balance their relationships and learn to thrive through her seminars, consulting and books. She also teaches marriage counselors and other professionals about effective marriage therapy for couples impacted by ADHD. Orlov blogs for Psychology Today and at www.adhdmarriage.com, where she also hosts a large community of adults learning about ADHD in relationships. She has been interviewed by many, including the New York Times, CNN, Today, and US News and World Report. Ms. Orlov is a cum laude graduate of Harvard College.